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		<title>Comment on Brandon McInerny gets major break in his bid for life by Tinkerbell</title>
		<link>http://stolenboy.com/2008/08/12/brandon-mcinerny-gets-major-break-in-his-bid-for-life/#comment-1158</link>
		<dc:creator>Tinkerbell</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 27 Aug 2010 19:25:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It is from a strange place i read all these comments.  I know Brandon personally, and had actually met Larry also. I knew Brandon as a child, and was closely involved with him and his family over years coaching him in youth athletics.  None of us grew up perfect.  I know at 14 my rational mind never came into play.  Do I believe Brandon knew right from wrong yes!  Do I think Larry knew what he was doing with his behavior yes! Are others ultimately responsible for the final outcome in this situation yes!  This is not an open and shut case, it can not be put in a box, nor can you pick sides.  These are kids, period.  One unfortunately is no longer with us, but we don&#039;t have to take and eye for an eye mentality and loose another one.  Many people do not want to hear me say Brandon was a great kid, they want to turn him into a monster full of rage and racist thought which are outright lies.  We all have disfunction in our lives, and both of these boys had more than their fair share, maybe this should serve as a wake up for people to realise how all of the craziness us adults somehow put on our childrens shoulders, and how we candy coat the world to them, as a fair place is not really the best thing to do.  For all those who want to agree or disagree it is your right, what is not debatable is that this tradjedy should have been avoided by having rational adults step into the situation, and mediate somehow the circumstances, rather than dance around civil right issues as their cover.  At the end of the day I would have rather had to deal with explaining the actions and rights possible violated then cleaning up the blood on the floor, and explaining the lack of action at all.  Vengence is not ours, and justice will never prevail in this situation, there are too many egos involved.  At what cost is the question????</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It is from a strange place i read all these comments.  I know Brandon personally, and had actually met Larry also. I knew Brandon as a child, and was closely involved with him and his family over years coaching him in youth athletics.  None of us grew up perfect.  I know at 14 my rational mind never came into play.  Do I believe Brandon knew right from wrong yes!  Do I think Larry knew what he was doing with his behavior yes! Are others ultimately responsible for the final outcome in this situation yes!  This is not an open and shut case, it can not be put in a box, nor can you pick sides.  These are kids, period.  One unfortunately is no longer with us, but we don&#8217;t have to take and eye for an eye mentality and loose another one.  Many people do not want to hear me say Brandon was a great kid, they want to turn him into a monster full of rage and racist thought which are outright lies.  We all have disfunction in our lives, and both of these boys had more than their fair share, maybe this should serve as a wake up for people to realise how all of the craziness us adults somehow put on our childrens shoulders, and how we candy coat the world to them, as a fair place is not really the best thing to do.  For all those who want to agree or disagree it is your right, what is not debatable is that this tradjedy should have been avoided by having rational adults step into the situation, and mediate somehow the circumstances, rather than dance around civil right issues as their cover.  At the end of the day I would have rather had to deal with explaining the actions and rights possible violated then cleaning up the blood on the floor, and explaining the lack of action at all.  Vengence is not ours, and justice will never prevail in this situation, there are too many egos involved.  At what cost is the question????</p>
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		<title>Comment on Bad Boy of Croquet, Mik Mehas, goes down swinging by Colette</title>
		<link>http://stolenboy.com/2009/07/17/bad-boy-of-croquet-mik-mehas-goes-down-swinging/#comment-1157</link>
		<dc:creator>Colette</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Jul 2010 03:44:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi, wow, what a night. Thankyou for the moments on the phone Mik. So very happy to hear of peace. I remember vividly the initiating process - those few days we spent together, the time we had to hash it out. You spoke of the one face of your father that I loved, the one you came to know. He loved you very much and had wished for your love. He longed for your respect and acceptance. I know that you carried the very same torment as well. I am happy for you both to have come to the great realization that walls are nothing but temporary blocks.
I am at peace with the past now too. Thank you for your words. In prayer for you and Big Mik, and for us all for a better world.....XC</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi, wow, what a night. Thankyou for the moments on the phone Mik. So very happy to hear of peace. I remember vividly the initiating process &#8211; those few days we spent together, the time we had to hash it out. You spoke of the one face of your father that I loved, the one you came to know. He loved you very much and had wished for your love. He longed for your respect and acceptance. I know that you carried the very same torment as well. I am happy for you both to have come to the great realization that walls are nothing but temporary blocks.<br />
I am at peace with the past now too. Thank you for your words. In prayer for you and Big Mik, and for us all for a better world&#8230;..XC</p>
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		<title>Comment on Good News for Jesse James Hollywood, Death Row Inmate Ryan Hoyt by Luke</title>
		<link>http://stolenboy.com/2008/07/01/good-news-for-jesse-james-hollywood-death-row-inmate-ryan-hoyt/#comment-1155</link>
		<dc:creator>Luke</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 10 Jun 2010 09:17:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The Belgian has decent grounding for his analysis, but he doesn&#039;t understand the &quot;why&quot; that explains why we Americans act as we do. No animosity intended, if you are curious to hear some inut (granted, if you have email notifications on :P ), just respond and I&#039;ll elaborate.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The Belgian has decent grounding for his analysis, but he doesn&#8217;t understand the &#8220;why&#8221; that explains why we Americans act as we do. No animosity intended, if you are curious to hear some inut (granted, if you have email notifications on <img src='http://s.wordpress.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_razz.gif' alt=':P' class='wp-smiley' />  ), just respond and I&#8217;ll elaborate.</p>
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		<title>Comment on In Brandon McInerney’s Defense, a Defense Fund by Romin</title>
		<link>http://stolenboy.com/2008/07/23/in-brandon-mcinerney%e2%80%99s-defense-a-defense-fund/#comment-1153</link>
		<dc:creator>Romin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 12 May 2010 19:23:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Dont DONATE TO THIS PATHETIC LOSERS DEFENSE FUND! HES A MURDERER AND DESERVES TO ROT IN HELL! WHY SHOW HIM SYMPATHY? DID HE SHOW HIS VICTIM ANY SYMPATHY WHEN HE SHOT HIM TWICE!! IN THE BACK OF THE HEAD! HE DIDNT EVEN HAVE A CHANCE TO FACE HIS KILLE. BURN IN HELL Brandon McInerney!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dont DONATE TO THIS PATHETIC LOSERS DEFENSE FUND! HES A MURDERER AND DESERVES TO ROT IN HELL! WHY SHOW HIM SYMPATHY? DID HE SHOW HIS VICTIM ANY SYMPATHY WHEN HE SHOT HIM TWICE!! IN THE BACK OF THE HEAD! HE DIDNT EVEN HAVE A CHANCE TO FACE HIS KILLE. BURN IN HELL Brandon McInerney!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Brandon McInerney is Worth Saving by Romin</title>
		<link>http://stolenboy.com/2008/07/21/let%e2%80%99s-save-ourselves-by-saving-brandon-mcinerney/#comment-1152</link>
		<dc:creator>Romin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 12 May 2010 19:19:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The way i see it: You do the big boy crime you gotta do the big boy time. So let him rot in jail. Dont donate to this pathetic losers defense fund. I dont know about the rest of you but at 15 i remember i knew right from wrong and i knew what the consequences for my actions would be. HE deserves no sympathy from anyone. BURN IN HELL Brandon McInerney!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The way i see it: You do the big boy crime you gotta do the big boy time. So let him rot in jail. Dont donate to this pathetic losers defense fund. I dont know about the rest of you but at 15 i remember i knew right from wrong and i knew what the consequences for my actions would be. HE deserves no sympathy from anyone. BURN IN HELL Brandon McInerney!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Good News for Jesse James Hollywood, Death Row Inmate Ryan Hoyt by Ken</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ken</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 12 May 2010 15:08:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The death penalty is not a state sanctioned murder; it is justice being served to those who deserve the death penalty. While there are law abiding citizens not having a place to call home, or food to eat or clothes to wear, people in prison have no such worries. Everything needed to live is provided to prisoners and funded by the law abiding citizen tax payer. What&#039;s worse is when a murderer gets life in prison and the victim&#039;s family and friends are essentially feeding the murderer of their loved one whenever they pay taxes. Nice. We put bad dogs down when they bite people; let&#039;s put bad people down the same way.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The death penalty is not a state sanctioned murder; it is justice being served to those who deserve the death penalty. While there are law abiding citizens not having a place to call home, or food to eat or clothes to wear, people in prison have no such worries. Everything needed to live is provided to prisoners and funded by the law abiding citizen tax payer. What&#8217;s worse is when a murderer gets life in prison and the victim&#8217;s family and friends are essentially feeding the murderer of their loved one whenever they pay taxes. Nice. We put bad dogs down when they bite people; let&#8217;s put bad people down the same way.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Right now is Jesse James Hollywood’s most powerful moment by melissa</title>
		<link>http://stolenboy.com/2009/05/14/right-now-is-jesse-james-hollywood%e2%80%99s-most-powerful-moment/#comment-1118</link>
		<dc:creator>melissa</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 17 Mar 2010 17:43:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>i think that she is so beautiful and so powerful when she sas kids she will be the most beautifulest babby ever????????????some one right to me ??</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>i think that she is so beautiful and so powerful when she sas kids she will be the most beautifulest babby ever????????????some one right to me ??</p>
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		<title>Comment on Alpha Dog Jesse James Hollywood is not a coward by Lynn</title>
		<link>http://stolenboy.com/2009/05/16/alpha-dog-jesse-james-hollywood-is-not-a-coward/#comment-1113</link>
		<dc:creator>Lynn</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Mar 2010 03:50:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I say let Dena fry for wanting to fry someone else ... and so on and so on and son on  .... hows that working for ya Dena?? Ya knucklehead!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I say let Dena fry for wanting to fry someone else &#8230; and so on and so on and son on  &#8230;. hows that working for ya Dena?? Ya knucklehead!!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Good News for Jesse James Hollywood, Death Row Inmate Ryan Hoyt by qwkinuf</title>
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		<dc:creator>qwkinuf</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 28 Feb 2010 02:14:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>There are many claims to why the death penalty should be abolished. Most are without merit. here are some of them.

The argument which states that the death penalty does not deter murder is weakly grounded at best. Dismissing capital punishment on that basis requires us to eliminate all prisons as well because they do not seem to be any more effective in the deterrence of crime.

Another claim proposes that States which do have the death penalty have higher crime rates than those that don&#039;t, that a more severe punishment only inspires more severe crimes. The truth is that every State in the Union is different. These differences include the populations, number of cities, and yes, the crime rates. Strongly urbanized states are more likely to have higher crime rates than states that are more rural, such as those that lack capital punishment. The states that have capital punishment are compelled to have it due to their higher crime rates, not the other way around.

Death Penalty opponents also hold the notion that criminals do not fear death because they do not take time to think about the consequences of their acts. If that were true, then how do police officers manage to arrest criminals without killing them. When a policeman holds a criminal at gunpoint and tells him to get on the ground, the criminal will comply fully in the vast majority of of these cases. Why would they do so unless they were afraid of the lethal power of the gun? It is because regardless of what the opponents claim, criminals are not immune to fear. It is a common misconception to believe that fear is a thought process that has to be worked out with a piece of paper. It&#039;s not. It is an instinct that automatically kicks in when one is faced with lethal force.

Another cliched argument is the question: &quot;Why do we kill people to show that killing people is wrong?&quot; That two wrongs do not make a right, therefore, executions are equivalent to murder. The term &#039;murder&#039; is specifically defined in any dictionary as the UNLAWFUL killing of a person with malice and aforethought. So logically, the word murder cannot be used to describe executions since the death penalty is the law. To do so is an obvious abuse of semantics. Second of all, comparing executions to murders is like comparing incarcerating people to kidnapping. There is a difference between violent crime and punishment. Is there a contradiction in a policeman speeding after a speeder to enforce speeding laws? One displays a serious lack of moral judgment to believe that just because two practices share a physical similarity means that they are morally identical. Law enforcement officials act well within the law when they punish criminals whether it be by charging fines, incarcerating them, or conducting executions, thereby, defending public safety.  

What separates crime from punishment, good from evil are not their physical aspects but rather their moral aspects. And moral aspects examine the reasons and motivations behind one&#039;s actions. Abolitionists tend to focus on the death penalty&#039;s physical aspects to demonstrate that it is the same as murder while completely ignoring its moral aspects involved, therefore, demonstrating their total lack of moral coherence.

Still another cliched argument used is that we should value ALL human life, even the most violent and despicable ones. That philosophy indicates that there is nothing more to humanity than the physical traits that identify our species. There is an entire spiritual aspect to humanity that they tend to completely ignore. Anybody can be physically human. All that is, is an accident of genetics. It is the spiritual aspects of humanity that actually define who and what we are. Moral assessments are based on one&#039;s acts and character, not on his race or species, the latter which death penalty opponents often use as an excuse to canonize murderers. Allowing one&#039;s species to hold more weight than his character is the foundation of racism. When a culture develops the moral coherence to recognize humanity as more a spiritual thing than just some physical thing, they will have no excuse to allow, tolerate, or preserve evil and barbarism just because it hides inside a physical human shell.

Personally, I think death penalty opponents have a lot of gall claiming that they are motivated by their &quot;reverence for human life&quot; when the only people they are interested in preserving are those who display the least of it...the very least reverence for human life.

And a final and perhaps most sophomoric cliched argument is that executing a murderer won&#039;t bring back his victim. They never explain how putting murderers in prison is any more capable of such a miracle. That is not the point of executions and it never was. Justice is not about bringing back the dead nor it it about revenge. Justice is about enforcing consequences for one&#039;s own actions to endorse personal responsibility. We cannot expect anyone to take responsibility for their own actions if these consequences are not enforced in full.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There are many claims to why the death penalty should be abolished. Most are without merit. here are some of them.</p>
<p>The argument which states that the death penalty does not deter murder is weakly grounded at best. Dismissing capital punishment on that basis requires us to eliminate all prisons as well because they do not seem to be any more effective in the deterrence of crime.</p>
<p>Another claim proposes that States which do have the death penalty have higher crime rates than those that don&#8217;t, that a more severe punishment only inspires more severe crimes. The truth is that every State in the Union is different. These differences include the populations, number of cities, and yes, the crime rates. Strongly urbanized states are more likely to have higher crime rates than states that are more rural, such as those that lack capital punishment. The states that have capital punishment are compelled to have it due to their higher crime rates, not the other way around.</p>
<p>Death Penalty opponents also hold the notion that criminals do not fear death because they do not take time to think about the consequences of their acts. If that were true, then how do police officers manage to arrest criminals without killing them. When a policeman holds a criminal at gunpoint and tells him to get on the ground, the criminal will comply fully in the vast majority of of these cases. Why would they do so unless they were afraid of the lethal power of the gun? It is because regardless of what the opponents claim, criminals are not immune to fear. It is a common misconception to believe that fear is a thought process that has to be worked out with a piece of paper. It&#8217;s not. It is an instinct that automatically kicks in when one is faced with lethal force.</p>
<p>Another cliched argument is the question: &#8220;Why do we kill people to show that killing people is wrong?&#8221; That two wrongs do not make a right, therefore, executions are equivalent to murder. The term &#8216;murder&#8217; is specifically defined in any dictionary as the UNLAWFUL killing of a person with malice and aforethought. So logically, the word murder cannot be used to describe executions since the death penalty is the law. To do so is an obvious abuse of semantics. Second of all, comparing executions to murders is like comparing incarcerating people to kidnapping. There is a difference between violent crime and punishment. Is there a contradiction in a policeman speeding after a speeder to enforce speeding laws? One displays a serious lack of moral judgment to believe that just because two practices share a physical similarity means that they are morally identical. Law enforcement officials act well within the law when they punish criminals whether it be by charging fines, incarcerating them, or conducting executions, thereby, defending public safety.  </p>
<p>What separates crime from punishment, good from evil are not their physical aspects but rather their moral aspects. And moral aspects examine the reasons and motivations behind one&#8217;s actions. Abolitionists tend to focus on the death penalty&#8217;s physical aspects to demonstrate that it is the same as murder while completely ignoring its moral aspects involved, therefore, demonstrating their total lack of moral coherence.</p>
<p>Still another cliched argument used is that we should value ALL human life, even the most violent and despicable ones. That philosophy indicates that there is nothing more to humanity than the physical traits that identify our species. There is an entire spiritual aspect to humanity that they tend to completely ignore. Anybody can be physically human. All that is, is an accident of genetics. It is the spiritual aspects of humanity that actually define who and what we are. Moral assessments are based on one&#8217;s acts and character, not on his race or species, the latter which death penalty opponents often use as an excuse to canonize murderers. Allowing one&#8217;s species to hold more weight than his character is the foundation of racism. When a culture develops the moral coherence to recognize humanity as more a spiritual thing than just some physical thing, they will have no excuse to allow, tolerate, or preserve evil and barbarism just because it hides inside a physical human shell.</p>
<p>Personally, I think death penalty opponents have a lot of gall claiming that they are motivated by their &#8220;reverence for human life&#8221; when the only people they are interested in preserving are those who display the least of it&#8230;the very least reverence for human life.</p>
<p>And a final and perhaps most sophomoric cliched argument is that executing a murderer won&#8217;t bring back his victim. They never explain how putting murderers in prison is any more capable of such a miracle. That is not the point of executions and it never was. Justice is not about bringing back the dead nor it it about revenge. Justice is about enforcing consequences for one&#8217;s own actions to endorse personal responsibility. We cannot expect anyone to take responsibility for their own actions if these consequences are not enforced in full.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Defense in Oxnard school shooting case seeks refiling in juvenile court by david</title>
		<link>http://stolenboy.com/2009/01/20/defense-in-oxnard-school-shooting-case-seeks-refiling-in-juvenile-court/#comment-1111</link>
		<dc:creator>david</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Feb 2010 04:18:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Bottom line is these kids these kids should know the difference between right and wrong. Some adults who never quite mature have a child like mentality, should they too be tried as children. At what point should the line be drawn. The line should be simple, do the kids know the difference between right and wrong, if so, yes, hold them accountability. At one time in history 13 and 14 year old children go to war and are held accountability by the hand of their enemies and commanders for their actions. In fact this is still true in some corners of the world. It is astonishing and angering to see a judge give a multi-person murderer a 8 year sentence.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Bottom line is these kids these kids should know the difference between right and wrong. Some adults who never quite mature have a child like mentality, should they too be tried as children. At what point should the line be drawn. The line should be simple, do the kids know the difference between right and wrong, if so, yes, hold them accountability. At one time in history 13 and 14 year old children go to war and are held accountability by the hand of their enemies and commanders for their actions. In fact this is still true in some corners of the world. It is astonishing and angering to see a judge give a multi-person murderer a 8 year sentence.</p>
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